well i guess everyone will feel helpless at different time of their live, well maybe i'm someone that wants to be in control of things so i hate to feel helpless... i guess you will oso feel helpless; how do u cope wif it? i guess the best way is to ask for help but we dun usually do that simply becos' we dun like input or being told tat we cant do anything tat we need to rely on someone... well truth is i'm sure there're times when pple approach u wif a problem & u oso dunno how to solve it... i noe i've experience lotsa problems tat i cant solve... well i guess nobody have ans to everything... then wat? i learn to be resolve... recently someone keep telling me to be still.... ( juz btw i'm very impatient person) to be still is like asking me to be someone else, someone i'm not... well i guess we're suppose to be imitators... we all influence each other & i tried but failed... but i do see the point in doing tat & i'll keep trying... to be still is not asking u to not do anything but think & listen... ironically somethings is really not up to us & the best things to do is not do anything... confused? me too...

david